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Hi... It’s me again Vanessa...   Sorry if I make some of you guys wait for so long... I may have told you that I’ll write more but my schedule is so hectic and sometimes I even feel not good.

Well… This time I want to write about forgiveness and gratefulness. I write this because this movie inspired me. Maybe I’ve been so late to watch this but I feel grateful that I watched this movie.  It’s called “The Fault in Our Star”

The thing is have you guys forgive enough? Have you guys feel thankful or grateful enough for whatever you are and whatever you have right now??

As human maybe we feel like we never get enough. I want this. I want that. Well it’s time for you to sit back and relax. Think about what you have and whoever you have right now, right beside you. As you don’t realize, you already have many things that makes you to feel grateful. As the simple-est  thing that you can be grateful is in the morning, when you woke up you can feel the air, as you breathe you can feel the oxygen running through your lungs. You may be remembered how bad your yesterday, you’ve got so many problems through your work, school, family , and more but try to take a long breathe slowly feel the air around you feel the oxygen through you lungs and finish it with a smile and say to yourself that “Today is going to be better than yesterday. Today will be a good day.”

We also may feel pissed off, hate someone, you may think that that person may have hurt you. Well, think again. Maybe, you just don’t realized what they’ve done to you. Surprisingly, they’ve become a part of your life. They must have done something good for you. No matter if they are your family, friends, teachers, your enemies, and even a homeless guy can be a part of your life. Every one beside you right now are a little part of your life. Those little parts that build you to become whoever you are right now. You may think they not but hey you’ve spend your time with them and they’ve also spend their time for you.  For those whoever hurt you physically or psychologically forgive them, embrace them before it’s too late. Don’t hurt yourself, forget all of the pressure, the pain you got and if you think that’s unbearable, talk to someone talk about it. It’s really not okay to keep it to yourself. It can be a serious damage for you in the future. For those who you hurt call them, meet them, apologize, as long as you can meet them face to face (not by skype, FaceTime or whatsoever) tell them how sorry you are tell them that maybe you’ve had hate them, for people you’ve done bad things to them apologize immediately because if they’re gone you can only blame yourself for the guilt. Admitting the things you've done is not something to be ashamed of, it's something to be proud of.

That's it for this time guys!! Hope you all inspired.. ;) Sorry for the grammar mistakes.. Wait forward to my next blog okay?!?!

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Friends?? Enemy?? Or Frenemies??

Well... Hello people!!!! :D

I'm so sorry for not writing or a long time. I've been very busy.. :(
I wonder how many people will read this after all this time..

Hmm... Do you have any friends (especially in school) that used to play, study, eat, etc.. with you that one day they just stop talking to you.. well... It's not like not talking at all, it's like you just feel that suddenly they hate you.. they replace you position with other people and keep secrets from you. You used to be hanging out together, share stories, and If your teacher wants a group work you guys will automatically become a group. Also when one of them have a party and your not invited.. Well.. It feels weird isn't it?

Hmmm.. Those things above just happen to me.. and still happening.. Actually At first I feels like I've done something wrong, I've done something that make them sooo pissed off.. So, I think to myself and after I think again and again, I've done... Nothing! they just ditched me with no reason.

Then, don't come near them again, it means that they just used you, for whatever the reason is. They're not a good type of friend. Once they done with you they just act like there's nothing between you guys.. Like only acquaintance.. So, just treat them like you used to be, but behave, don't expect too much or you'll be broken again. You need to be strong! Just ask them when you really need them. like if your teacher tell you to use the old group for the project, just do what you can, do your best it's for your own grade right?! After that done..

You also don't need to worry if they don't invite you to their party. For example, your friend will throw a 17th birthday party. Even if you're the only one in the class that she don't invite, you should've be very happy, and just calm. Why? You don't need to prepare a dress (don't forget for the annoying dresscode which you can't wear this, you must wear this, etc), don't need to prepare a gift, don't need to think about how you go to the party.. etc.. At least you can save your money for more useful things right?!

Don't feel like a loser if you don't have friends beside you in class for the break time.. It's okay.. There still a whole class. Don't feel like you're alone. Your class, your school, still have more people for you to make friends.. Put your smile up, and make them feel sorry for everything they've done :)

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That's it for this time guys!! Hope you all inspired.. ;) Sorry for the grammar mistakes.. Wait forward to my next blog okay?!?!

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